Moroccan Love and Saudi Oil
By Jamal Laoudi |   |
Rajaa Houlla is a 29 year-old gorgeous Moroccan lady who was married to a Saudi man in Saudi Arabia. December 5, 2008, Saudi authorities arrive at her residence in Jeddah to deport her. Unbeknownst to her, her husband had divorced her few days earlier thereby she lost her legal status to reside in the kingdom. The deportation process was carried out expediently Reuters reported. Reuters also distributed a picture of Rajaa reacting to the news. http://www.reuters.com/news/pictures/searchpopup?picId=7134713
Since this is not the first such incident in Saudi Arabia, the Saudi Shora council began, about a month ago, looking into adopting laws to regulate marriages between Saudi men and non-Saudi women. There are abundant cases where Saudi men abandon their wives in such manners. Some of the divorcees may even have children.
On the Moroccan side, a statistic by the Moroccan Justice Ministry showed that Moroccan women marry from Saudi Arabia more than any other Arab nation excluding their own. This prompted Moroccan Interior Ministry to send a memorandum to the Saudi embassy in Rabat emphasizing the need to regulate marriage between citizens from both countries. Both governments are working actively to determine what set regulations to adopt in order to get a better grip over this problem.
Kudos to the Moroccan government for standing up for its citizens. Such undertakings will boost the citizen�s confidence in its government.
Kudos, also, to all Saudi men who marry for the right reasons and respect marriage and its sanctity.
What would prompt a young beautiful woman to accept to be the second, the third, or even the fourth wife of a much older man?
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ahmed in la : The answer to your question is: greed, poverty and materialism.
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obaid : Hello,
This is no news Mr. Laoudi, you said it yourself in your article. We grew up to hear and understand that girls from morocco use this business decision with people from the gulf, mainly Saudi Arabia. They sell sex and act in a house -manipulating religion and self- to appear in a conjugal life for a limited period of time. What is the result for our Moroccan girls: money, jump in social life (which may heal the inferiority felt by pours in our beloved country),….o zid oziz .
I personally find it hard to believe that Rajja didn’t know what she were getting into. A lot of people may even ask how much her deal was assuming that her business plan must have been well studied. But who knows???
On a related note, don’t you think that many of our Moroccan girls are using the same business plan in usa?
I am a Moroccan and I am not going to hang myself in shame because of these girls, I happened to know some girls from morocco, the least you can say about them is; “llalla o molati”
OBAID.
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johnnybravo20 : that was her choice and she deserves anything that happens to her. the want glory , but they want the luxury , they get luxury and then they want glory . there you go rajaa go back to derb seltan and wait for another saoudi . by the way i think the pricing went down.
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| kamalb27 : It is hard to talk about this case, We don't know the full story, we are hearing it from from one side only. allah yehdina |
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lailchi : Jamal,
thanks for posting...
I think I have a little problem with the 'title"... Saudi oil?? Are we to assume this woman married this man just because of oil, and wants his money...? The article doesn't have enough information to even argue this and or support this stereotype or dilemma... Or support what you say in the title, it's a very complex, layered sentence and leads us to believe something which might be completely false.
I don't think it's appropriate or even right to quickly define the issue, it'd be clear to know the complete back story, woman's opinion as well as the husband's... who knows...it must be a difficult situation for her .. Anyway we just do not know the basis of their marriage. Linking the 'Love' part to the 'oil' part might just be a little unfair.
thank you :)
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bayfig : I don't understand where the surprise is. Since forever, we've all known that such marriages are for money for the Moroccan women and sex for Saudi men. These men are no marriage material. They change women as often as they do change underwear. No respectable family would give their daughters to a Saudi man. This woman did not marry for love. She married for greed and she gets what she bargained for.
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nabilala : This is a good article. Unfortunately, this is happening even between moroccans themselves. The Saudis have no principles for abandoning their wives, but what would we say when Moroccan men are doing the same thing to their fellow moroccans! Marrying moroccan women, then divorcing them as soon as they have come across a "better catch".
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rockboy27 : well,those hwalla think that with their money they can buy anything,including women.yet,i still do not feel pity for her,because that's what she was looking for,she wanted to taste his daugh and she knew what the consequences of her intentions could be.
the point is what goes aroung comes around,and that hawli will get what he deserves . |
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morrival98 : May be and just may be these Moroccan Women should stop being "Gold Diggers" and start marrying for love and not Camels. Moroccan men are being victimized by these unprincipled Moroccan Women everyday. After all, she married this Saudi Animal. So i am guessing she has made enough money which will enable her to buy another child. To wrap it up, i just have one question " who marries a saudi anyway".
PS Not many people have sympathy for this kind of Moroccan Greed and neither do I, until then "off with their heads". |
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zormit79 : Greed, and "Kelat eddine". Don't even bother telling me that those girls are marrying Saudi men to raise a family. I'm sure a lot of you have seen them in cafes of Agadir etc, it is disgusting...
Kudos to the men and women that frequent a holy place called "the mosque", and marry for legitimate reasons! |
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nazy : Just want the moroccan lady to be really smart enough and never believe in love, all she has to do is to "milk" as much as she can before the wedding.
And for you moroccan guys, if a moroccan ladies get married with MEastern men is because moroccan men are getting married with Sapnish,dutch,french etc and nobody complain, if a moroccan lady has to marry an Europeen man, the whole city will poit at her and ask if the gawri is musli and they never ask if the gawria is muslim.
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| arasti : Due to lack of information about this case, any conculsion will be lopsided and plain wrong. |
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ritage : Hi,
I don't wanna judge Rajaa eventhough the deal is clear...Rajaa and so any girls like her got used to easy money and it is not just in arab countries ,here too but unfortunately we are paying the price as moroccan girl living in the US or anywhere else and I experience that so many times... I just think that if the girl fears God she will accept to lower her self not matter what. |
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nabilala : Thank you Laila for your comments!
It is strangely surprising how my fellow moroccans are excellent at judging. Who are we to judge? No one knows exactly what happened. Where she comes from? what exactly happened. Please remember you are not God and by no means you are here to judge. Please be objective and see things from different angles.
Nabila,
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chirrir : I do not think that this have to do anything with money, moroccan girl are attracted to middle easter because they know how to express their feeling and also because they love their accent.
I am not gonna lie to you, i love their female accent |
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saramay123 : It's very risquy moving to a country without many laws protecting women, they don't practice Islam's laws, women aren't even allowed to drive.
Marriage is based on good intentions for a lasting life time partnership. Zawaj al mut3a and zawaj 3oorfi aren't allowed in Morocco, but widely practiced in these countries, even in the US I heard.
VAWA law was created here in the nineties to protect foreign spouses, things like that happen all over the world.
Moroccans should learn their lesson from the Alegerien inquisition in 1975.
She's lucky she doesn't have kids yet, there are thousands of kidnapped children in the middle East been taken away from their mothers,I know of two American mothers whom been fighting their system for years. You might think American govenment has more weight than the Moroccan one!
Just for the sake of sharing:
A l'occasion du 60me anniversaire de la declaration des droits de l'homme que le monde a fete le 11 decembre.
Le roi a leve toutes les reserves relatifs a CEDAW(convention internationale contre la discrimination envers les femmes),par la loi il y aura egalite des sexes! |
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mahfoud : Just a thought… Some comments to this thread are extremely biased against this poor sister. Let’s think 2009 – better to be ahead than behind.
Some men marry for no other reason but to have access to a green card / permit de sejour and we men think its all OK, even if it does not work out.
Are we taking it out on this lady because of our dislike for those oil barrels.
Moroccan constitution states
Article 8: Men and women shall enjoy equal political rights. Any citizen of age, enjoying his or her civil and political rights shall be eligible to vote.
Mahfoud
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lailchi : ...."Off with their heads"???
...., hwala, name caliing. What cave are you guys from.
Allah li3alam. We can't judge, no one deserves pain and one shouldn't wish pain on someone like that. Especially if you know nothing about them or their life. How old are we here....?
Women in cafes in Agadir or anywhere in Morocco is a long story that is complex, very layered and is really the result of A LOT OF STUFF in our homeland! it is a sad truth. Look deep, get to the root of our issues and problems. |
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| rabati30 : The Fact that this saudi trash " not al saudis are trash by the way i got many saudi friends that are super great" divorced her the day after without even trying to get her back, proves that this was only a pleasure marriage "zawaj allada" no more and no less. that makes him just another animal using his money to buy women. and Rajaa houlla on the other hand is nothing but a cheap degraded individual with no self esteem, knowing she was selling herself for a day or 2 for a few dollars.I'm sure that now she will have a greater career pursuing this line of business which many moroccan girls are pursuing to reach her financial goals. and to those who say we dont know the story yet. you can save your breath our women " i meant low grade women from the bottom of the society' are known worldwide and in the in the gulf countries in particular for selling themselves so cheap. numbers speak for themselves. and they blame us us men for being cheaters and not knowing how to treat. which is nothing but garbage but just an excuse to exercice their prostitution and selling on their bodies to foreigners for a few rounds, and therefore degrading our image and that of our beloved country. they even have a law in saudi arabic which prevent moroccan women less than 30 yo or something to enter saudi arabia because they know they are gold diggers and propstitutes. i think we should do the same prevent these "fasikat" from coming back home we dont need them they are such a shame to our nation. |
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Professor : Salam,
I have read most comments on the article and I do agree with some and not others. All in all, as we are all aware, the socio-economic situation in Morocco is extremely difficult for millions, or I should say for the majority. There is no denying this fact. Women are probably the most impacted given the fact that they had been oppressed for many years. Most poor women are found to be between the rock and the hard place and this is why they resort to desperate marriages of the type talked about in the article. A friend of mine's sister was divorced with two very beautiful children. Her husband was abusive for many years until she asked for a divorce. Her final choice was not less than a way to regain her honor and dignity. a couple of years later, a Saudi man came and asked for her hand in spite of his other then-current wife. He did not hide this fact. He was honest about it. Still, the Moroccan divorced woman chose to marry him for the sake of her children who would have otherwise suffered more extreme poverty, alienation, etc. There are good Saudi men out there, but there are also very lustful ones who deserve nothing short of the true Islamic justice. Many of these rotten ones fly over to Morocco, buy sex from hundreds of women, disseminate diseases including AIDS, and then leave behind them wakes of irremediable destruction. The irony of the matter is that these men do bear the mark of devout Muslims (dinar sign on their foreheads, a sign of prostration while praying), but their actions are those of satin and his disciples. I always believe that Saudis were by far the true image of our unique faith, but I have come to realize that many of them bring nothing to the world but shame and disgrace. We all need to keep speaking out until the U.N., other international institutions, and especially the Moroccan media do something about this scourge.
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rockboy27 : I think that those type of women have a disease that consists of hooking up with hwalla, and these women pass this disastrous disease from generation to generation. They do not care how much of their dignity and self-respect they have to give up achieving their goals of being “somebody”. They want to improve their social status or climb the social latter by obtaining luxury sedans and luxury accommodations…..wziz…..wziz…..But, Wallah they do not try to change their ignorant habits, nor do they try to stop others from making the same mistakes they do, instead they encourage others to do the same. In that way, they set up more victims for these animals, for a price of course (kawada). One would think these women or “Gold-diggers” would want to get back to the right way, which is God, but that is not the case. Just as ahmed in L.A. mentioned, “greed, poverty, and materialism” are some of the factors that increase the chances that these women will become victimized by these hwalla, who bribe them with their money and tell falsities of a nicer living, in simple terms these men sell these women a dream that will never come true. Maybe, these women are naïve, but maybe they are trying to play a game that they cannot win. As Mr. Morrival98 said, “who marries a Saudi anyways…” are you kidding me? True that homie! The moral of the story is, you can’t make a H** a house-wife. I will rest my case for now, HOLLA!
P.S. always projects of Kouraich
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whisper : Could you stop hating at least for once? We always bring the worst out of our people. That lady could be someone decent, someone who got married cause it’s was her destined future, someone who got married cause she got tired of waiting for a Moroccan proposal, someone who had no choice, or she had to take the wrong decision, not knowing the consequences, since she may have gotten into marriage with good faith without thinking of any other outcome or was taught the other party’s country law and procedures. If she knew what was coming, she wouldn’t cry out for help.
Also, not every Moroccan female is a street girl, not every Moroccan female married to an Arab from the Gulf, or particularly from Saudia is like those who sell themselves for money. And most of all, not every Saudi guy is a wealthy guy by default. The have wealthy people, middle class, and also people who live on salary to salary. I saw cases where the Moroccan female accepted a proposal from a Saudi coworker and she had to continue working to help out with the daily expenses, Hmmmmm how come? He’s a Isn’t he a Saudi? Isn’t he supposed to be rich? ………(*_~), I saw cases where our fellow Moroccan females were so stack up into pursuing the wealth and fame, but paid huge price, by being deserted all the time, replaced by newer and younger female most of the time, they had to either adjust to the situation or pay by losing everything to the Saudi, which may cost them their children too. Also, I saw cases where even Moroccan guys were selling them selves to these Arabs, Oh, I forgot, they’re men, they can’t be blamed.
That woman, could be someone’s daughter, sister, neighbor, but most of all, she’s Moroccan, she’s reaching out for help, cause she knows she was abused and thrown out from the country. Instead of insulting her more, and accusing her of wrong doings. Standup for once, and defend your own people. Some women are put out there involuntarily. Some women are abused by their families, by their own boyfriends. If some women got the chance to meet Moroccan men who appreciate them for who they’re, they will be the happiest. Some men, enjoy bad girls, some abuse women, some pursue women for what they have also. Also, more importantly, Arabs are sweet talkers, they could be jerks, but they have manners, they can make you believe in them, while our fellow Moroccan men, in the majority, harshly rude and they only sweet-talk to you to get to their goal.
If you’re mentioning Agadir and bars and night clubs, well the government is allowing it, how about that?
And the story goes on and onnnnnnnnnnnnn…………………………………………….
Anyway, I’m not trying to insult or harm anyone's pride, i believe in all men are the same, no matter what their ethnicity. Almost made the same mistake marrying a foreigner. Prayed to God to be with a Moroccan, and I’m proudly married to one.
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| morrival98 : let's restore the traditional role of fathers. mothers are great but they so happen to be irrational. i bet rajaa does not have a good role model. i wish her well! |
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| ajrida : The answer is pure economics (monetary gains and spiritual/physical loss) |
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elmajed : Hi All,
Happy New Year everyone.
First of all, I need to stand up for my Moroccan Sisters here and say that Moroccan Women including my wife, my mother and my sisters and others are very good partners in life and ask any true Moroccan he/she will tell you so. Second of all, the main point in the article was not what if Rajaa did the right or the wrong thing, I think Jamal was asking here if the Saudi Government have the guts to change their marital laws and not allow Saudi men marrying from other nationals without giving them their full rights as their "wives" inside Saudia Arabia under that country's family laws. This is the main point of the article and open for discussion. The author was trying to give credit to the Moroccan Authorities for standing-up with their females by not allowing other nationals to take advantage of them by marrying them without admiting that they have other "wives" somewhere else, this is the issue here and not if our Moroccan ladies are this and that. And by the way can we stop the trash talk regarding our Moroccan ladies, please. Our ladies have been sufforing and still do so under the Man dominated society.
Finally, as a very proud Moroccan, I will ask my fellow Moroccan men to take a look at their fellow Moroccan ladies with some respect and listen to their concerns and you'll see the results on those good looking kids they'll give you one day. Good luck you all on what ever you wish in your lives.
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| Abdelhafid : A respected man by the name Barry Commoner once said: "There Is No Such Thing as a Free Lunch. In nature, both sides of the equation must balance, for every gain there is a cost, and all debts are eventually paid." |
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spontaneous : Hi Y'all and Happy New Year, 2009. May this year be better and much more happier than the previous one !
It’s funny how especially Moroccan guys here hate on Moroccan girls and always judge, disrespect and label them as money worshippers and basically sl**s,…
Stop judging that poor girl Ok, you didn’t live in her shoes, u didn’t live her life,… How can sit there and hate on her like this Oh she got what she deserves like give me a break. I don’t know why you don’t defend ur fellow Moroccan women especially outside the country. I guess that you just don’t have it in you guys, shame on you,… that`s why they run and date middle easterns, at least they have fun with them, not like most of y`ll haters, uneducated, under sophisticated and plain DULL.
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investmentgroup : Dear fellow citizens:
First of all, happy new year to all of us!
To go back to Mr. Laoudi's story, I don't think we should criticize as hard as we did the bride since we don't know her side of the story. Whatever position she is in, to be deported unexpectedly and out of the blue, would deeply hurt not just here but anybody in her shoes including yo and me. Now being poor sucks and we all know that! people have different ways and different ideas as to how to get out of that nasty position. Some of us chose to come here, to go to Europe, or to even sell drugs. We are in no skilled position to condemn or to condone anybody's personal choice.
On the other hand, we should all be thankful for the initiatives our government has taken to help and support our fellow citizens. I am sure some of us or maybe most of us will disagree with me and think that that same government doesn't do shit for us! Well, they do what they can given the resources they are given. If we want more, we should give more. It is a poor country, its power comes from its citizens.
I wish you all the best of luck and a good year!
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mraissam : the best answer to ur question is : MONEY.
NO MONEY NO HONEY ;) |
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| rockboy27 : Hello everyone, first I want to say Happy New Years to all of my Moroccan brothers and sisters and Inch Allah this year will be better than the last. I just wanted to respond to a comment that Spontaneous has posted. Please do not take me wrong, I never said that I was heaping all Moroccan women into a single category. Of course there are wonderful Moroccan women and bad Moroccan women, unfortunately this is true for women and men in every country. My mother is the greatest lady alive and she is Moroccan. She raised proud Moroccan daughters and proud Moroccan sons. One thing I have to say that is not clear is why you expect Moroccan men to not "judge, disrespect and label" when you obviously are doing the same thing, when you label all Moroccan men as "haters, uneducated, under sophisticated, and plain DULL" This is hypocritical, don't you think?! And also, these "women" date middle easterns to have "FUN", give me a break! What kind of fun are we talking about? Dancing for dollars, while these men humiliate our sisters and daughters for their own satisfaction, PLEASE, before you call people uneducated, do some research and post a comment worth reading. |
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nida : Salam o 3alaikom and Happy new years everyone
I bet raja already found another man and we are here arguing about her situation. J
The main thing is that EVERYBODY IS RIGH (right to their opinion that is), but we will never know for sure until we experience that specific situation.
Come on everybody lets get alone.
For all the girls who have a problem with Moroccan guys, this is what I say to you.
If you don’t like them just ignore them, and I pretty sure they will do the same thing back at you (l mgarba nfoushom harraJ). I think that’s the main problem. Some girl love to play hard to get and that might not work well with Moroccan guys.
I hope that’s solves the problem J
Cheers to getting alone J
Nida
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spontaneous : Hi y’all, To RockyBoy
First fo all Thanks for reading my article. After all it was worth ready (coz u read it obviously). The things I so wanted to get out of my chest in these many years I ve spent in the states, are unfortunately not nice at all. Ive noticed that many Moroccan guys love to just badmouth Moroccan girls. Whenever there is an opportunity for them to talk trash about them they do it, they love it actually,… and you wonder why Moroccan girls don’t like dating u`all !!! in my opinion cause most of y’all are not worth it, as simple as that. From my experience, whenever I met a Moroccan man before he either thinks you are after him to establish a residency here or you are in some deep financial hole and just want to have someone to lean your load on…. And the list goes on…. And when you actually find an educated guy, well there you ve got it, he thinks he owns the world…. For all of you who sit in those lounges and clubs and wonder why Moroccan girls don’t even look at you or say hello to you, well because you simply don’t know how to treat us let alone talk to us.
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sweety80 :
I feel so sorry for these girls cause poverty is the number one cause of what they are doing.
I also feel that as long as they are marrying these saudi men who are known for their very bad treatment to moroccan women, they should seek ways to protect themselves or at least anticipate that they might end in a very bad situation....
Salma, 27 years old
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idriss : Hello Wafiners,
I just want to comment on spontaneous's opinion about Moroccan Men in general. As any place in the world you will find good and bad people. This being said, in the US you will find good and bad Moroccan men. It just happened that you were not lucky and that you met only the bad Moroccan guys. There are good Moroccan guys here. It's just that you did not get the chance to meet them.
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meroutre :
I think this Saudi turkey did the lady a favor by divorcing her.She will have an opportunity to lead a descent life now.Most Moroccan women who marry Saudis do it for cash,they usually milk them and then disappear within few years.It will be very hard for a Moroccan woman to spend her life with a Saudi ,unless she is blind ,deaf and mute.
Moroccans and Saudis have absolutely nothing in common,even the way we practice our religion. |
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lola33 : No sympathy or what so ever. this is an exchange of sex for money. Nothing new here. How did she meet this man, in college? or a night club?
Moroccan chicks should get educated and stop using their body to earn money.
I am disgusted, she can keep crying on her low self esteem.
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abdelgolf : I noticed how fast most of people are conditioned to judge immediately when they find out a Moroccan woman married to a "SAUDI"..You know what I am thinking.?.We should not blame anyone since we don't have all the facts. However, the Saudi guy has to assume his responsibilities and pay alomony to this lady..Also, the Moroccan authorities have to have some will and courage to investigate the situation further to make sure this woman's rights are protected..So, this article is about a claimed victim and not about politics..If we start politicizing this situation, this woman's situation will get even worse..No matter what happened between them, this woman should not go home empty handed..
my advice to you: you are a beautiful woman, and may be this is a good thing that happened to you..
if you need more advice, post an article here, I will be more than happy to help..
Good luck
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abdelgolf : this dialogue has become an entertainment instead of about Rajaa Houlla's situation.. this is not about you guys..you are missing the point..this lady is pleading her case so she could have some support from us..With my respect to others, I feel a negative energy here, and Rajaa Houlla is not happy to present her case to some of you, who talk about their experiences..who cares??? be supportive or stay out of it..Rajaa Houlla is a human being, whose rights have been infringed upon.please be supportive and you will never know, it may happen to you..Karma..
peace
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abdelgolf : Rajaa! don't worry, it's just a lesson you have learnt in your life..it could be worse..You are still healthy and beautiful ..Trust me , the best is still ahead..Stay strong and optimistic..
peace
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abdelgolf : Rajaa!!! We have not heard from you; keep us posted in regards to the progress of your situation..Some of us would like to provide some assistance or support..
Good luck
peace
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lola33 : Saudi men come to Morocco for one reason : prostitution. Not allowed in their countries. They meet beautiful women coming form very poor families. Some times they fall for one of them and marry them under jawaj almot3a which is very common in middle east, a shi3a thing. whatever happened I actually dont really care. she is probably already with another sa3oudi by now. rajaa does not need our support , she needs rial saudis and that is why she is crying.
Lola
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| Bahraoui : Well said lola...Moroccan Women...not all of them but most of them marry for materialistic purposes, if its a rich moroccan then its perfect, if not then a saudi would do it otherwise an american to bring her over here or a european to take her to the other side of the mediteranean..this is what we call the gray marriage or the "love scam"...actually the saudi guy was lucky enough that his government accepted to deport her, an american would not be that lucky because the immigration office in america does not support "vendettas" if the husband finds out that he's been scammed by a moroccan sneaky greedy disgusting woman. |
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| NajlaWest : With all due respect - i would NOT marry a Saoudi man if my life depended on it :-) |
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Tandjah : I have to say that I don't blame anyone for getting out of Morocco any way they can. I was born in America, and so I wont "preach to the hungry on a full stomach." I blame the "Powers that Be" in Morocco for the plight of every girl who feels she has resort to such degradation, for every boy who washes up on the beach near Tanger, ect. The corruption, greed and mismanagment of a few cause this shame.
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sueRabat : Salamu Aleycom,
In Egypt, they got fed up of these foreign men and even some of their own Egyptian Immigrants, a law was enacted a couple of decades ago, which requires any foreign spouse to buy a property in Egypt in the name of the Egyptian woman, before he can marry her.
This was a law enacted specifically to protect some of the women who fell in such situations, may end up having children and may need large sum of money just to hire attorneys etc ....
But let me ask you something??? Moroccan men, how many American women have you used and abused? How many Moroccan women have you used and abused????
26 years in the USA, I ve seen it all and geard it all.
So Saudi oil or Moroccan Uranium? some women are just unlucky, and so many men are simply abusers. IT does ot matter his oil, PhD or blue eyes. It is how one was brought up at home, and by home I mean his parents & his country.
So please stop judging the victims.
Salame
September2009
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sueRabat : I hope Moroccan men would start respecting moroccan women. I have a problem with the title too. IT is ignorant. Most saudis are poor actually. and 30 % of their youth is unemployed. I advise Moroccan women to NOT marry people from the Gulf or the middleast simply because they and we have not learned what respect is. 2 wrong do not make right. Those who criticize Moroccan women and accuse them have forgotten the thousands of our men who married Americans Canadians French German and even Budhists women from all over the world, acting as if they did nothing wrong.
Well we see the result of these marriages. So, dear Moroccan MALES, before you criticize Moroccan women, face it and tell me how many of you married Moroccan WOMEN.
In the poll taken by WAFIN few months back, only half Moroccan MALES expressed that they prefer to MARRY a Moroccan WOMAN. Tell me, who will marry the other half?
Enough hypocricy plz
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